I could tame a dragon ~ I have drawn many, like the one above
I am powerful and wise as a dragon. I guard my treasures.
I have the dragon's fire in my heart and between my legs.

I am a diva. I am down to earth but love my bling.
I'm a strong independent self aware Lady
I want to be happy - can you make me happier?

	09/08	My son at 4 years old

This is my reverse brindle boxer. I didn't have the ears clipped.	A 'Big Boy Mastiff' puppy at 10 weeks	MY big boy at 5 yrs old and the 'Big Boy Mastiff' at 1 yr. The 'Big Boy Mastiff' is not yet recognized as a bred so they are only breed registered. They are the largest dog breed. He should reach about 240 pounds and be about 1-2" shorter at the head than a great dane but be the same height at the withers. My son has always been big for his age. This is when he was 5 yrs old. On his 6th birthday he was 85 pounds, size 2 shoes, size 10 pants & shirt and over 4 ft tall.

To the right is one stage of my tattoo. If you do not like a woman with ink then you are not going to like me. Below is a link to my tattoo page.

I love making web pages and doing graphics - but I am going to just do this quickie for Myself since I do have work I need to get done. I always have work to do. I am self-employed. I don't like wasting My time. There is far too little time in a life to waste it. That is one reason I don't watch much TV. I believe in work before play and that a good schedule will allow more time for play. I like to live a simple life, with no drama, no clutter, and no knick-knacks all over the place. I don't go out often and when I do it is to meet with friends (existing or possibly new). I don't like to yell, so bars are not a favorite. Since I am usually the driver, I will have only one drink. When I do drink a margarita made with a good tequila is usually my choice. A good tequila is NOT jose's stuff. I like Haradara(sp?) Silver or Don Julio - shots are fine too if I am not driving. I don't like to be drunk nor to be around someone who is anything beyond a tiny tipsy. If you like to drink and get drunk - pass me by if it is more than a couple of times a year. If you are a 'stoner' (I know old word) or do any 'recreational' drugs - again... we would not work out.

I did this mini-website so you can learn more about Me before we enter into conversation. I am not being rude, just logical, reasonable, and I am interested in quality not quantity. There is no sugar coating or easily leading you into something then changing who I am down the road. I am now who I will always be. I will never be too old to be goofy now and then. I have a clever, dry wit - they say. I am proud to say I make at least two people laugh in a day.

I put this here to encourage those who love who I am and to discourage many. If you don't meet My criteria or if you can't handle Me, I would appreciate it if you do not contact Me.

Send E-mail to luvsdarkmen@yahoo.com

or catch me on Yahoo IM as luvsdarkmen

My criteria...

You must be honest and honorable. No little white lies, no deceptions, no BS, no drama

You can't be too intimidated by Me. I am not posing a challenge. I am a strong Woman who is true to my passions and philosophies.

You should be an African-American (black) man. I know the stereotypical 'large size' is just a myth. If I was just looking for 'a big one', I am attractive enough that I could have a different one - every day. I am looking for a black man since I have a visual fetish of seeing the two contrasting skin tones. I have found more black men that understand a Matriarch lifestyle. That means that the Mother (or Grandmother in many cases) keeps the family together. A man who respects Women for the diversity that they encompass.

You must be emotionally and mental mature but still able to play like a kid or be silly like a teen. This means you understand and accept responsibility. All people cry if they are emotionally connected to themselves. I have found more black men able to fully express their love for their woman, children, and mother. You know that work comes before pleasure. You would know your own limitations. You need to be able to accept that there may be a food fight and that I may try to sneak up and yell 'boo'.

You must understand that My son comes first. This means even in regards to me working too much.

You must have a job, a car , a computer in your home, a phone, and must be capable of making enough money to support yourself and can do this continually. I would prefer a man who could also support Me and My son. I love the feeling of economic security. I provide for us but don't have extra and I would like to start a college fund for My son. The main luxury we have is cable and high speed internet. My son and I are both on the computer at least an hour each day. Other than that he has a Vsmile and a Vtech. I think games are great when they are done in learning capacities.

You must have an open mind! As you read more about Me you will see why. I will always answer whatever questions My son has. He is being raised with an open understanding of many lifestyles.

You must accept me for who I am. I am Me. I have an open mind and can be accepting to whom a person is. I know who I am, like who I am and even love who I am. The fundamentals of who I am will never change. I will not stop smoking. I will always have at least one dog. I will always be driven.

So here are a few links to tell you a lot more

My tattoos

The Remodeling of My 1900 home - and yes that is Me in the pic with my son's father

Movies and TV

Dating History and HIV/STD Tested Clean

Understanding that I am a Mistress and a Pro-Domme

Java Chat Software

In May 2008, I had to gain weight to be a Queen Plus size model for www.queendivadesigns.com

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These pics are a year or more old. My hair is now about to mid-back when straight.

I am a published author

I sell fetish clothing, BDSM gear, and sexy fashions up to size 12x. I also allow subjects to serve Me as a Pro-Domme. To some this is confusing but I assure you there is no sex and not even nudity from Me. If you have questions - just ask. My room mate is under a collar of submission to Me and yes - she calls me Mistress

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